Being an executor for an estate is a seriously heavy burden. Some may say it’s like carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders! This is one of the many good reasons to explore creating a living trust for your estate.
The executor named in a will is the person responsible for settling and finalizing a deceased person’s estate according to the deceased wishes. Some states use the term “personal representative” instead of executor.
Here is a list of most of the tasks you are asking your executor or personal representative to do after you are gone:
Find your will
Seek advice from an attorney and retain if necessary
Locate the correct probate forms and apply to appear before the probate court (See Part 2 below)
Publish a “Notice to Creditors” and mail to each known creditor
Send notices of your death to the post office, utilities, banks and credit card companies
Notify beneficiaries named in your will
Inventory all of your assets and decide which to have appraised
Collect debts owed to your estate
File for your Social Security, civil service or veteran benefits
File for your life insurance and other benefits
File applicable city, state and/or federal tax returns (Hire an accountant if necessary)
File state death and federal estate tax returns
Pay valid claims against your estate
Distribute your assets and obtain receipts from beneficiaries
File papers to finalize your estate
For protection, your personal representative should keep a copy of all records for at least two years. And your personal representative/executor should not hesitate to seek the guidance of a professional if he or she needs help in settling your estate.
And finally, all of this must be done in a timely, organized manner with government/probate court oversight, while attempting to maintain family peace and harmony.
For more insights, the Wall Street Journal recently published a great article "The Burden of Being an Executor" and you can read it by clicking HERE.

